A Caregiver's Love: Russ Bond Shares His and His Husband's Journey Through Prostate Cancer

Wednesday, September 03, 2014 5:12 PM comments (0)

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Patient Don Tabler was diagnosed with prostate cancer in 2000, with some charts giving him only six years to live. His husband Russ Bond cared for him throughout his 12-year journey with prostate cancer.

Here, Russ discusses the important role of a caregiver as well as the care his husband received at NorthShore Kellogg Cancer Center, including the cutting edge treatments and clincial trials that helped Don's doctor, Daniel Shevrin, MD, Medical Oncology and Palliative Medicine, improve and maintain his quality of live and extend his survival far beyond what was intially projected.


Cancer Survivorship: Tips for a Caregiver

Wednesday, June 06, 2012 9:23 AM comments (0)

Cancer SurvivorshipBeing diagnosed with cancer, at any stage, can be overwhelming and highly emotional. Not only does this news immediately affect the person who is diagnosed with the disease, but it also impacts their loved ones.

As one moves through diagnosis to treatment, often friends and/or family members will serve as caregivers.  National Cancer Survivors’ Day—held on June 3, 2012—is and an opportunity to recognize and celebrate life, and all of those who have been impacted by cancer.

Carol Flanagan, RN, Living in the Future (LIFE) Cancer Survivorship Program, offers the following words of wisdom to cancer caregivers:

  • Get educated. Learn as much as you can about the disease. While you won’t be able to relate firsthand to what your family member or friend is undergoing, knowing what is going on with his or her illness and emotions can help you provide a better support system.
  • Be positive. It’s normal to be nervous and scared. Maintaining a positive attitude, and bringing fun and laughs into your loved one’s daily life, will help ease the stress of the situation. Staying positive will also help keep you healthy and upbeat, two things that may be very hard to maintain through the journey.
  • Identify a team. Involve other friends and family members in the care process. There will be days when you’ll need a break, and having a network of caregivers can be very helpful both to you and to your loved one. If it’s helpful, create a “to-do” list that can be shared among various caregivers.
  • Be resourceful. Find out what resources are available in your community for people going through a similar journey. Helping with this research can take some of the stress and anxiety of the disease off of the person with cancer. Be sure to look for online resources too. Feel free to join a couple groups of your own, if it will be helpful.

If you’ve cared for a loved one with cancer, what advice would you give others?

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